Life’s messy. Your success doesn’t have to be.
Sunday night. 9pm. I was sitting in the bath—tears rolling down my face. The house was finally still. The kids were asleep. And Monday? It felt like a mountain I couldn’t climb. I wasn’t just tired—I was done.
That tight, suffocating weight on my chest? It had become my new normal. We’re told this is just what life is supposed to look like: Work. Guilt. Laundry. Drop-offs. Deadlines. Exhaustion. Mental load. The never-ending to-do list.
Stay grateful. Don’t complain. Smile through it. Because other people have it worse, right?
But here’s the truth no one’s saying out loud: You’re burnt out. You’re overwhelmed. You’re holding it all together for everyone else—kids, work, life—but losing yourself in the process.
No matter what you do, nothing seems to change. You’re running on empty. You can feel your physical and mental health declining. And it’s starting to affect everything—your energy, your mood, your relationships.
Your kids are growing up right in front of your eyes—and it’s happening so fast. All you want is for time to slow down so you can catch up. Be more present. Feel like you again.
I had a smartwatch I had to stop wearing because it wouldn’t stop alerting me: “Your stress levels are too high.” Even my tech was waving a red flag.
And here’s the part that hit me hardest: I was trying to do all the things for everyone… But I couldn’t be everything, do everything, all the time.
What about you? What about the version of you who wants to do something meaningful—without sacrificing your health, your time, or your family?
You want to be present. You want to earn well. You want to build a future that fits around your life—not one that drains you dry.
This is your moment to make a change—not just by reading, but by deciding this is where things shift. Because if nothing changes… nothing changes.
This post isn’t here to sell you some empty dream. It’s here to share some home truths. The real reason 85% of people fail with affiliate marketing… And more importantly how you can be part of a small group who are doing it differently—and doing it right.
You weren’t made for survival mode. This isn’t about working harder. It’s about working smarter—with a system, with support, and with purpose.
You’re Not Failing—You’re Just Following the Wrong Plan
You already know the basics: You promote products that already exist and earn commissions. No product creation. No shipping. No stock. Just your voice, your pace, your brand.
Affiliate marketing is one of the fastest, most flexible ways to build a business online—and still have a life offline.
So why do most people still fail? Because they’re not the problem. The strategy is.
Too many are sold a dream: “Work from anywhere! Make money in your sleep!” But dreams without direction? Just lead to burnout and disappointment.
I know—because I was that person, too. Now I know better. And I want you to know better, too.
Because yes—you can do this. Even if your to-do list feels like a brick wall. Even if you’re juggling 47 plates. Even if your confidence is hanging by a thread.
This isn’t about chasing success or proving yourself. It’s about building something meaningful—on your terms, with intention, and heart.
And if you’ve ever thought, “I can’t do this much longer”—you’re not wrong. But you’re also not stuck.
Let’s get into it. I’m pulling back the curtain on what most beginners get wrong—and how the top 15% are building real, freedom-fuelled businesses that actually work in 2025.
The Hard Truth About Why 85% Get It Wrong
(Don’t Be One of Them)
Let’s zoom out for a second. Right now, over 5.6 billion people are online. Yes—billion. They’re scrolling. Searching. Spending. The digital economy never sleeps—and your audience? They’re already out there.
So why do most people still struggle to make it work? It’s not because they’re not capable. It’s because they’re busy doing—without a system that actually builds. Until now.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right—but still not getting anywhere? It’s not you. It’s the approach.
Let’s get brutally honest for a second—because this is what’s quietly sabotaging most beginners:
- They try to go it alone—piecing together free YouTube videos, overthinking every move, and burning hours that lead nowhere.
- They chase money, not meaning—promoting products they don’t believe in, building businesses they don’t even like, hoping for quick wins instead of long-term trust.
- They expect overnight success—but skip the skills, the mindset, and the systems it actually takes to grow.
- They cling to low-ticket commissions—grinding for pennies instead of learning how to sell high-impact offers that scale.
- They skip the strategy—posting without purpose, unclear on their message, their audience, or why it even matters.
- They stay stuck in learning mode—always consuming, never implementing—because clarity doesn’t come from more information. It comes from aligned action.
I’ve been there. Burnt out. Spinning plates. Wondering if I was missing something everyone else had. And I was—a strategy built for real life. A strategy built for me.
Most people think success means doing more. Louder. Faster. Always on. But the truth? It’s not about more—it’s about alignment. It’s not just what you know. It’s how your strategy fits you—your strengths, your season of life, your values.
Meet Tony and Ness—Parents Who Started Right Here
Newborn in arms. Chaos everywhere. No perfect timing—just a decision to start.
They leaned in. Took aligned action. And made the shifts you’re about to learn.
Today? They’re earning flexible income, reclaiming their time, and showing up fully for their family—without the burnout. They didn’t hustle harder. They aligned smarter.
That’s the difference between running on empty and finally building something that fits.
What You Really Need to Get This Right
Not daily posting. Not a massive audience. Not hours you don’t have.
You need:
- A strategy tailored to your strengths—so you’re not forcing what doesn’t fit
- Step-by-step support when life gets messy—because motivation fades, but mindset holds
- Tools that simplify—not complicate—so you move forward faster
- And training that fits around your life—not the other way around
That’s why I’m sharing the exact training that changed everything for me—and for countless others who were stuck, overwhelmed, and tired of figuring it out alone.
It gave me real strategy, grounded support, and a path that actually made sense.
The training is led by Stuart—the mentor who helped me cut through the overwhelm and follow a proven approach that works for busy people.
If you’ve been stuck in the scroll, trying to piece it all together on your own—this is your switch. From scattered to strategic. From surviving to building. From burnt out to finally breathing.
Because when you have the right tools, the right plan, and the right support? Everything changes.
Wait—this next part matters. Here’s exactly how the top 15% grow with less chaos and more intention. Not surface-level advice—real shifts that create time freedom, income, and clarity that lasts.
The 5 Key Shifts the Top 15% Make
Stripped-back truth? Affiliate marketing isn’t a lottery ticket. It’s a business model. A very lucrative one… But only if you build it like a business.
The biggest mistake most beginners make? Trying to create long-term freedom with short-term habits. They treat it like a side hustle, hope it’ll “take off,” and give up the moment life gets busy.
But the top 15%? They commit. They get clear on their why. They build real skills. And they show up even when it’s not convenient—because they know what’s on the other side of consistency.
They don’t wait for perfect timing or clarity—they build it as they go. Remember, success leaves clues. Follow what works. Cut what doesn’t. Keep going.
This is a marathon, not a sprint. Think of it like parenting: no one expects their child to walk perfectly on day one. It takes baby steps, a few stumbles, and a whole lot of showing up. Building a business is no different.
If you want real freedom, you need real strategy. This is your invitation to think bigger—and act smarter.
Let’s break down the 5 shifts the top 15% make—and how you can start using them today. Because results don’t come from doing more. They come from doing what works—on purpose.
SHIFT 1: Choose Your Hard—On Purpose
What you’re not changing, you’re choosing.
You’re already doing hard things. Waking up tired. Powering through work. Juggling drop-offs, deadlines, and dinner. Living on autopilot—while knowing you’re not where you want to be.
That’s hard. But here’s the truth: so is building something better.
The difference? One kind of hard keeps you stuck. The other kind moves you forward—toward school-run mornings without stress, inboxes with commissions, and a life where work fits around you.
The top 15% don’t chase ease. They choose their hard with intention. They trade the burnout of “just getting by” for the challenge of building something real.
They don’t expect overnight wins. They expect progress. They invest in learning—because winging it costs more, in time, energy, and money.
They show up and do the work: 20% learning, 80% doing. They build real skills: marketing, storytelling, strategy. And they take imperfect action—consistently.
Hard is part of the deal. So why not choose the kind that actually leads somewhere? Effort isn’t the enemy. Wasted effort is. Point it in the right direction—and watch what starts to work.
Real progress doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from doing the right things—on purpose, and with consistency.
Ready to learn the strategy real people use to turn side hours into serious income?
SHIFT 2: Build a Stronger Why Than What’s Holding You Back
Every time you think about giving up, two things show up: excuses or reasons. And only one of them builds your future.
Let’s be honest—there will be days when you’re tired, confused, or doubting everything. The dishes will pile up. The tech will glitch. Your brain will scream “this is too much.”
That’s when most people tap out.
But the top 15%? They don’t have more time or confidence—they have a stronger reason to keep going.
They’re not chasing quick wins. They’re building:
- a work life that doesn’t steal their presence from their kids
- a business that means they don’t have to ask for time off
- a legacy that shows their family what’s possible
That kind of why doesn’t need motivation. It becomes a decision. A standard. A driver. Because when your why is strong enough, your excuses stop being convincing.
Now ask yourself this: If you knew you were just 25 failures away from earning more in a week than you used to in a month… how fast would you move through them?
Would you face fear faster? Would you re-strategise sooner? Would you change your environment without waiting for permission? Would you stop seeing time as the threat—and start using it as your tool?
The top 15% don’t fear mistakes—they move through them with clarity and intention.
Every setback teaches. Every misstep refines. And every so-called failure? It’s just data pointing toward growth.
They don’t slow down when it gets hard—they lean in harder. Because that’s what treating it like a real business actually looks like.
You can wait for the perfect plan… Or you can become the person who figures it out while taking action.
Want help getting crystal clear on your why—and the exact steps to start?
SHIFT 3: Learn the Language of Emotion—Not Just ‘Algorithms’
Most beginners obsess over the wrong thing: How do I beat the algorithm? But the top 15%? They focus on something far more powerful—how to connect.
Because the truth is, people don’t buy because of perfect funnels or fancy formulas. They buy because they feel something.
They feel seen. Understood. Inspired. Empowered.
If your content isn’t converting, it’s rarely the algorithm’s fault. It’s because the message isn’t landing emotionally.
Top affiliates don’t just talk about products. They tell stories. They paint a picture of transformation.They speak directly to pain points and desires—with empathy, not hype.
They know trust isn’t built through features. It’s built through feelings. They create content for real people with real problems—because they were that person once.
When someone feels like you truly get them? They’ll listen. They’ll lean in. And even if they’re not ready today, they’ll remember you when they are.
Marketing today isn’t just about information. It’s about emotion, connection, and trust. It’s about building a brand that actually means something.
That’s where Authority Marketing comes in. It’s the method that sets real creators apart—the ones who lead with value, show up with purpose, and attract the right people without shouting for attention.
And the best part? It’s not just for gurus or experts. You’ll learn the foundations in this training—what Authority Marketing is, why it works, and how to apply it your way.
Want to learn how to create content that actually connects and converts?
SHIFT 4: Invest in Skills That Take You Further—Not Just Faster
Here’s what sets the top 15% apart: They don’t just scroll and save content for “later.” They choose to back themselves. To build real skills. To make decisions like someone serious about creating more time, more options, and more freedom in how they live and work.
Because Googling is not the same as growing. And the people actually building momentum online? They’re not winging it.
They’re following a proven framework that gives them:
- A clear roadmap to prepare, launch and grow their business
- Simple, step-by-step strategies that actually work
- Support from mentors who’ve been where they are
- Mindset tools to push through the tough days
- Tech tutorials even the least techy person (hi, me!) can follow
- And a scalable foundation that grows with them—not just for now, but for the long haul
Because this isn’t just about affiliate marketing. It’s about becoming the kind of person who can build something that lasts. And when you do that? The skills you build here can take you anywhere.
This is world-class training that’s been used by people from all walks of life—busy parents, 9–5ers, creatives, marketers, and business owners—people with a lot on their plate, but an even bigger vision.
Because it’s not about passive learning—it’s about real transformation. Skills that stick. Action that compounds. And results you can feel.
Build a Smarter Business—Not a Busier One
Most beginners chase volume—thinking they need hundreds of sales to succeed. But the top 15%? They build differently.
They focus on aligned, high-impact products that pay more per sale. That means fewer customers, stronger offers, and income that grows without burning out.
10 powerful sales can hit the same goal as 100 tiny ones. Which would you rather?
This training shows you:
- How to choose the right products (not just popular ones)
- How to market with clarity, confidence, and connection
- How to grow income that feels good—and scales with your life
This isn’t about working harder—it’s about working smarter to build a lifestyle with real freedom.
Use AI the Right Way—To Amplify You
AI is incredible. It can help you write content faster, brainstorm ideas, automate tasks, and save serious time.
But the magic happens when AI supports your human strategy—not replaces it.
Because your story, your energy, your connection — that’s what attracts people. And when you combine you + smart AI tools + a proven framework? That’s where it gets powerful.
You Don’t Have to Figure It All Out Alone
Here’s what I didn’t realise at the start: The people making real progress? They get support. Not because they couldn’t do it alone—but because they didn’t want to waste time figuring it all out the hard way.
Mentors weren’t even on my radar. But once I started listening to the people actually building sustainable businesses, I noticed a pattern.
Codie Sanchez. Steven Bartlett. Mel Robbins. They all had guidance.
Inside this training, you’ll have the option to add mentorship too—so when doubts creep in (and they will), you’ve got someone in your corner. It’s genuine support. From people who’ve done the work and know what actually helps.
Because the fastest way forward? Is walking with someone who’s already been there.
SHIFT 5: Master Money Moves—Before the Money Comes In
This one’s big. Most beginners treat money like a reward—something that shows up after success.
But the top 15%? They treat money like a tool—and they learn how to manage it from day one.
They know that making money means nothing… If you don’t know how to keep it, multiply it, and use it intentionally.
Because freedom isn’t just about income. It’s about how you manage your outgoings, your time, and your mindset in the meantime.
Here’s the shift:
- They invest early in the right training—not random tools and tactics that don’t move the needle.
- They track their numbers (even when they’re small) to build smart habits.
- They delay lifestyle upgrades and focus on long-term wins over short-term dopamine.
- They separate emotion from income—no panic in the lows, no ego in the highs.
They treat every sale like it matters—because it does. Managing one with intention sets the tone for managing a hundred.
Because here’s what they know: If you can’t manage money now, more of it won’t solve anything.
But if you learn to move wisely with what you’ve got? You’re already building the habits of someone who’s ready for more.
This is the part most people skip. And it’s why so many people start fast, but stay stuck.
You don’t need a finance degree. You need a system, a mindset shift, and a willingness to act like the CEO—even if you’re still figuring out what your business is going to be.
Before the big results came… top affiliates invested in skills, strategy, and support.
The Quiet Realisation That Sparked a Whole New Future
Let’s Get Real for a Second
I was the corporate parent chasing security—a steady paycheck, a clear career ladder, a job that looked good on paper. But inside? I felt trapped.
Rigid hours. Rules that made no sense. Missing the moments that actually mattered—because someone else owned my time.
The truth? No job is truly secure. COVID made that clear. Overnight, routines collapsed. So did the illusion of safety.
I was doing everything “right.” But I felt exhausted, unfulfilled, and drowning in guilt—parent guilt, time guilt, the kind of guilt that keeps you up at night.
I kept saying, “I don’t have time to build something of my own.” But I had time to scroll. To binge Netflix. To overwork for someone else’s dream. It hit me: I wasn’t out of time. I was out of alignment.
And then came the imposter syndrome. That little doubt: “Who am I to do this?” If you’ve felt it, you’re not alone.
I didn’t start with confidence. I built it—through messy action, quiet mornings, and learning behind the scenes.
Video scared me, so I didn’t start there. I started writing. I took small steps. And I discovered a business model that let me grow my way—with zero pressure to be anyone but myself.
Then came the breaking point: Sat in my car before work, tears in my eyes, exhausted and empty. That was the moment I knew: I can’t live like this anymore.
So I stopped waiting. I invested in real training. I used AI tools to work smarter. I built a brand rooted in my values. No hype. No chasing trends. Just meaningful work that fits my life.
I didn’t quit everything overnight. I built something that lasts—one decision, one hour, one step at a time.
Because when you build on your terms? That’s when everything starts to change.
Why Affiliate Marketing Works for Parents Like Us
Affiliate marketing changed everything for me—because it fits around real life. It’s flexible, automated, and scalable. You don’t need 8 hours a day. Just pockets of time—and the decision to begin.
I built my business during school hours, evenings, and the odd late night. Not with perfect timing. But with commitment, consistency, and a strong why.
Here’s what this model gives you:
- Freedom to build at your pace
- Income without sacrificing family time
- Smart systems + AI tools to do more with less
And more than anything? It helps you become the parent—and person—you want to be: present, empowered, and free.
Because you shouldn’t have to choose between showing up for your kids and building a business that matters.
The 85% wait for the perfect moment. The 15%? They start anyway.
If you’re ready to start, this is where I’d begin—
The same training that opened my eyes to what’s really possible with an online business built around real life. It gave me the clarity, confidence, and momentum I’d been craving—and it’s ready for you now too.
Final Thoughts: Don’t Settle for the 85%
You weren’t made to hustle your way into burnout. You were made for more.
Affiliate marketing gave me my life back—but only when I stopped waiting and said yes to the right kind of support.
This is your moment to shift gears. To dream bigger, act braver, and finally believe success is possible for you. Not someday. Not when things calm down. Now.
Anyone can build this—if they’re willing to start. Not with all the answers. Not perfectly. Just with the decision to move forward. Because confidence doesn’t come first. Action does.
So don’t let another year pass in the same cycle. Don’t wait for the timing to feel right. Don’t wait for permission. Choose courage over comfort.
When it gets messy, keep going. When something flops, adjust. But whatever you do—don’t stop.
Because the truth is, it’s not hustle that sets the top 15% apart. It’s clarity. Strategy. And relentless, imperfect momentum.
You’re more capable than you realise. And this next decision? It could be the one you look back on and say: “That’s when everything changed.”
You don’t need more hours. Just more intention.
Never forget this: You get to choose what’s next. The life you want won’t build itself—but it will meet you at the point of decision.
And the most powerful investment you’ll ever make? It’s in yourself.
Got questions? My inbox is open—reach out anytime. I’m here to support you, every step of the way.
Here’s to your future, and the life you’re creating,
Jenna
P.S. Don’t wait for life to slow down. It won’t. The best time to start was yesterday. The next best time? Right now.
FAQs
Do I need experience to start affiliate marketing?
Not at all. This training is designed for absolute beginners. You’ll get step-by-step guidance, clear actions, and support every step of the way—no prior skills or tech know-how required.
How long before I see real results?
That depends on you—your work ethic, your consistency, and how willing you are to learn and apply. This isn’t a get-rich-quick scheme (and if that’s what you’re after, this isn’t it). But with the right mindset and steady action, many people start to see real progress within a few weeks—and meaningful results within a few months. You’ll have access to the tools, training, and support to fast-track your growth—but how fast it happens comes down to the effort you put in. There’s no magic button. But there is a clear path—and it works when you do.
Is starting expensive?
Not at all. Compared to traditional businesses, startup costs are minimal and manageable. You can start small, scale as you grow, and invest only when you’re ready—no pressure, no surprises.
Can I build this while working full-time?
Absolutely. Most members begin with just a few hours a week—early mornings, evenings, or weekends. This business is designed to flex around your life, not the other way around.
What about ongoing costs?
There are flexible options depending on your goals. You can start with low-cost video trainings, then upgrade to the full program, and add tools or mentorship when you’re ready. Every step is optional and tailored to fit your pace and budget.
How is this different from “get-rich-quick” schemes?
This is the real deal—backed by proven strategies, a supportive community, and a clear path to sustainable income. No hype, no empty promises—just practical steps that build lasting success.